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The Ten Most Dangerous
Mistakes
YOU Probably
Make With Women
MISTAKE
1
Being Too Much Of A "Nice Guy"
Have you ever noticed that
the really attractive women never seem to be
attracted to "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had
attractive female friends that always seemed to
date "jerks"... but for some reason they were
never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on
how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do
because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL
ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that
powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE
you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of
logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but
GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act
on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women
that you want.
MISTAKE
2
Trying To "Convince
Her To Like You"
What do most guys do when they meet a
woman that they REALLY like... but she's just
not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to
feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL
NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES
TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel
differently about you with "logic and
reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how
in the world do you expect to change that
FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we
beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her
mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE 3
Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which we
mistakenly think will make them like us), us
guys are always doing things to get a woman's
"approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of
men who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for
them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well
means "always getting her approval and
permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for
approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who
seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her
approval annoy her...
MISTAKE 4
Trying To
"Buy"
Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out
to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers,
and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't
treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it
happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear
message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so
I'm going to try to buy your attention and
affection".
Your good intentions usually come across
to women as over-compensation for insecurity,
and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right,
I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE 5
Sharing
"How
You Feel"
Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
Another
huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make
with women is sharing how they "feel" too early
on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they
get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men
don't realize this, but attractive women are
being approached in one way or another ALL THE
TIME.
An
attractive woman is often approached several
times a DAY by men who are interested. This
translate into dozens of times per week, and
often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess
what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT
of men.
That's
right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know
what to expect.
And one
thing that turns an attractive women off and
sends her running away faster than just about
anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I
really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This
signals to the woman that you're just like all
the other guys who fall for her too fast... and
can't control themselves.
Don't do
it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a
much better way...
MISTAKE
6
Not
"Getting"
How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it
comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman,
he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men
based mostly on looks? Or is something else
going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over
five full years now, I can tell you that women
usually have their "attraction mechanisms"
triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot
more average and unattractive men with beautiful
women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain
qualities in men... and they're attracted to the
way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks
alone.
If you know how to use your body language
and communication correctly, you can make women
feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction
to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy
young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to
LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE 7
Thinking That It
Takes "Money And Looks"
One of the most common mistakes that guys
make is giving up before they've even gotten
started... because they think that attractive
women are only interested in men who have looks
and money... or guys who are a certain height...
or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are
only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in
a man's personality than his wallet or his
looks.
There are personality traits that attract
women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to
use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman
just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how
to use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same kind
of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU
feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE
8
Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or
permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER
to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to
like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they
can walk all over... Women aren't attracted
to Wussies!
MISTAKE
9
Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do
In Each
Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better
than men at reading body language. That's ten
TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But
for example, if you're out on a date with a
woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do
and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit
there looking at her and getting nervous, she
won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and
dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number,
asking her out, kissing her, getting physical...
everything.
If you don't know what to do in each
situation, you will probably screw it up... and
LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know
EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with
a woman... from the first meeting, all the way
to the bedroom.
MISTAKE
10
Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men
from EVER having the kind of success with women
that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves
look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for
help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how
I figured out how to be successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with
the fact that I didn't know how to approach,
meet, and get dates with women that I was
attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
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